Working with Systemic Constellations in your life
- Do you wonder why you keep repeating the same patterns in certain areas of your life, despite your attempts to change them?
- Do you ever feel like you are living someone else’s life and not your own?
- Do you wonder why you can’t seem to make a go of your business, earn enough money and be successful in life?
- Do you wonder why you keep attracting the “wrong” people into your life?
Everybody suffers it:
a false royality to his/her family system
Constellation Work is a systemic therapy modality where the individual is regarded as part of a greater family system. It is a unique method that brings to light the hidden loyalties within our family, traumas that shape us and our family’s perception of life and dynamics below the surface.
Good intentions creating livetime dynamics
Despite their greatest efforts many people struggle to live their lives to the fullest and to relate well in their closest family relationships. Some describe the experience as if there are powerful forces that seem to thwart them in their lives; they feel entangled within the dynamics of their family as if in a spider’s web.
These dynamics are not visible, but their presence is felt from the disturbance it leaves in its wake and its impact on our body and senses.
Entanglements in family dynamics can result in relationship difficulties between partners, parents and children, siblings, and other important relationships. They can also contribute to other difficulties such as addictions, illnesses and negative repetitive patterns in our lives.
Releasing hidden family dynamics
This work is allowing a hidden dynamic to surface, and seeing it in the light of consciousness shifts our perception of truth and brings relief. In 1990, Bert Hellinger developed a method using constellations, to reveal hidden dynamics within the family, which he called “The Orders of Love”.
When the natural order becomes distorted by external forces such as an early death, divorce or separation, secrets or lies in the family, adoption etc., the negative entanglements can persist for several generations.
In a constellation systemic influences are made visible
Constellation work is a process by which systemic influences on a person are made visible. In setting up a constellation, a participant selects little figures or placeholders to represent his or her family members, and moves them around until their relative positions reflect the participants experience of his or her family.
When this movement is done silently and with respect, the client has a felt sense if this arrangement is “right”, if it truly represents the family dynamics or if there is something that needs to be rearranged.
Family Constellation –
a respectful process
The dynamics of the family relationship can be observed. I work with my clients in a highly respectful manner to bring to awareness, blocks that prevent love from flowing to all members of the system.
Healing in Constellation Work
Acknowledge
It is what it is.
To fully acknowledge your family, current life situation or past event is a step into more freedom.
Acceptance
Simply by seeing the dynamics, a deep understanding can happening.
This can help you to get new perspectives, new solutions are possible, and will create.
Transformation
Through your understanding and acceptance, a transformation is created.
Dynamics can now shift, love can flow, relationships can change.